Still Cruel & Unusual: Will LGBT Sexual Assault Continue in U.S. Prisons?

While I have never been incarcerated or a victim of sexual violence, I still see sexual assault in prisons as a extremely important issue. It has the potential to affect any of us regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. Anyone can face the possibility of imprisonment whether fairly or not, and as a population dealing with higher rates of sexual violence, this is an especially serious problem for LGBTQ people.

In 2007, the Bureau of Justice Statistics (BJS) found that 4.5 percent of prisoners in federal and state prisons had been sexually abused in the last year alone! Additionally, it has been found (big surprise here) that the most vulnerable inmates come from the same marginalized populations who are at greatest risk in the broader community, including youth, LGBT individuals, and those with disabilities.

What frustrates me is that so many of us are willing to ignore this issue. Perhaps many feel it’s unlikely that they’ll ever be incarcerated, and if we do not know anyone who’s been in prison, one could more easily have an apathetic view. I feel like apathy has been our community’s response to this injustice for too long, and something needs to change. The far right has taken the view that any harm that those incarcerated endure is part of the punishment they should endure.

This is a problem we should care about though. Inmates in most states can’t vote, don’t have lobbyists or the financial ability to make campaign contributions. This greatly reduces the representation of these issues in political discourse. Also, when the government imprisons someone, they restrict that person’s ability to protect themselves, but also take responsibility for protecting them. The government is clearly not handling their responsibility concerning the safety of those they incarcerate, and this definitely needs to change.

This issue differs from more commonly discussed LGBTQ issues (same-sex marriage, domestic partner benefits, employment non-discrimination, etc…). Those issues effect a much larger segment of our community, whereas this issue doesn’t. Also, sexual assault in prison is an issue that people are probably less aware of, especially as it relates to the LGBTQ population.

I wonder why LGBT rights organizations don’t bring more attention to this issue? Feeling safe IS a human right that is generally denied anyone who is imprisoned, but especially LGBTQ people. While this seems to be an issue of a minority within a minority, it seems like too grave an injustice to continue ignoring.

Let's Get Married!

In yet another grim exhibit showcasing America’s intolerant and discriminatory core, our fellow americans from one of our united states, Maine this time, rejected the decision of their elected legislators to legally recognize same-sex marriage. Why is marriage such a hot topic? Why does any one of us care who any one of us marries? Why can’t everyone in America get married? Why can’t we, the federal government, pass equitable legislation, affecting all of our supposed united states? The USA has plenty of laws on ‘the books’ that affect the entire country’s citizenry: taxes/IRS, housing laws/HUD, environmental laws/EPA, and a host of others found @ http://www.usa.gov/Topics/Reference_Shelf/Laws.shtml .

Since the federal government of our democracy steps into so many phases of our lives, why won’t they pass a federal law that declares it ILLEGAL for a states’ government to ratify oppressive, discriminatory legislation? Is this really how our oft-referenced founding fathers intended we rationalize their words? Ya know those guys; they’re the ones who wore wigs and make-up and moved across an ocean to find a life free of oppression!

I grew-up in the late-sixties/seventies, believing that the government, the man, would never have a place of power over my body, what I did with it, nor if I got married. How did my neighbor get control over who I love and marry? What gives anyone that power over my civil rights? Why should I / the public have that level of supremacy over another human being? I thought that kind of rule belonged in the judicial branch only.

All the answers seemingly come from a book that uses the word marriage a lot and has been recently popularized by an increasingly aggressive bunch of really rich theocrats and I’m mad as hell! While they wave their book, their words and actions discriminate, judge, subjugate, tyrannize, demean, insult, fire, don’t hire, constrain, and {insert your own words here} our community! I’m not gonna take it anymore!

When will a citizen of this fine democracy petition their neighbors, creating a state referendum asking to make it ILLEGAL to file for a divorce? Isn’t that really the only guarantee to protect the almighty sanctity of marriage? Divorce is what’s killing ‘marriage’ in America, not people who love each other and want to live that truth in public! Why don’t we fight back by uniting behind OUT-lawing divorce? IMO that single action will force all the bullies back to their pulpits.

Campus Pride Summer Leadership Camp 2009: Reflecting on my experience as a “Happy Camper”

Do you know who Frank Kameny is? I didn’t — not until I met him last summer at Pride Camp, the only Summer Leadership Camp for LGBT and Ally college students. The five-day camp experience works to develop stronger undergraduate student leaders and safer, more LGBT-friendly colleges and universities. Participants have the opportunity to learn valuable campus organizing skills, coalition building and strategies for creating change at colleges and universities.

When I arrived at camp, I was greeted by students in bright, orange t-shirts that read “Happy Camper” and rainbow colored bandanas on their heads. I got to meet Frank Kameny, who I never heard about in school. Kameny is an 84-year-old veteran of the LGBT rights movement; in 1957 he was fired from a government job for being gay, which sparked him to spend the rest of his life fighting for equality. This year, Kameny finally received a formal government apology. When President Obama signed the memorandum granting partner benefits to federal workers, he handed his pen to Kameny. It was an opportunity of a life time to meet a man like Kameny.

I was embraced with open arms at camp and was proud to be a representative of my campus LGBT Resource Center. I was inspired by the speakers that were at camp. For example, Shane L. Windmeyer spoke about The Time is Now. Now is a critical time to be an LGBT and ally student leader, as public opinion is being shaped. The time we spend as a leader impacts who we are, who we love, how we choose to live, and how we can live in our communities. These moments are opportunities to create change to transform one’s life and those around us. It’s time to create change. On the last day of camp, Jessica Pettitt did a keynote, “Be the Change You Want to Be.” In order for one to make change, a person must realize what they are oblivious to and come to understand how this lack of consciousness guides his or her actions and assumptions. Collectively, we can begin to break down behaviors, actions, assumptions, and stereotypes that limit our organizations, friends and more importantly ourselves. I was empowered to create change on my campus. After her keynote, she asked us to create tangible goals and realistic action steps to be the change we wished to be. Jessica was my favorite speaker at camp. She was phenomenal!

We spent a lot of time talking about “privilege” at camp. I am both black and white and never really thought about privilege and how it affects me. I’ve experienced many things, but “white privilege” hasn’t been an issue for me. People of color might see me as a Black person, but white people might see me as a White person. I remember when I told a white person in my LGBT Studies class that I was a person of color and she replied with, “I never would have thought of you as a person of color.” This was when I realized that “white privilege” existed for me. At camp I gained a sense of my privilege, and along with it, a sense of responsibility. We did the privilege walk; similar to the one my Director does in Ally Training. I noticed a big difference from being in a group of mostly LGBT people versus a mix of LGBT people and straight people. When I did the Ally Training in 2007, I landed in the back of the room which made me feel that I didn’t have many privileges in this world. However, at camp I landed towards the front of the room which made me feel like I was privileged in the LGBT community and that I have the power and privilege to make a difference for all of us, not just most of us.

There was a very diverse group of people at camp which really benefited me as a person. I’m a very diverse person and like to learn from others who come from different walks of life and backgrounds unlike me. It gave me a chance to see others in the battle to create change on their campus and to learn from their individual development on their campus. Their drive and determination inspired me to do more on my campus and to realize that we are a “privileged” campus to even have a LGBT Resource Center. There was one student at camp who wanted to start an LGBT center on their campus. That in itself was empowering to hear.

I enjoyed being around other “Happy Campers.” Never before have I encountered so many leaders like me. I learned a lot about LGBT activism and it changed my perspective about LGBT issues. The resources shared were phenomenal. It was definitely worth my time and investment. I would recommend camp to anyone. I left camp with a deeper sense of empowerment, the LGBT movement, its challenges and my own role in it. I think that my generation has a vital role in the LGBT movement this time in history more than ever. Time is working in our favor. LGBT people are on the winning side of history as courts, legislatures, leaders and communities make strides to recognize our rights and humanity. The role we each play being visible, sharing our story, is vital in advocating for justice and equality.